Character

A charge to keep I have. What is a charge?  To lay on or impose, as a task, duty, or trust; to command, instruct, or exhort with authority; to enjoin; to urge earnestly; as, to charge a jury; to charge the clergy of a diocese; to charge an agent.
It is a thin line between “you” which is life and your spiritual assignment. It's so easy for the two to intertwine. God's walk for you and your everyday life is two different things. This goes back to where the bible speaks of worldly things and the spiritual world. This is being taught but not in every aspect.  Example, you can’t take your love for someone and inflict it upon the church. You can't use the church to show your love for someone.  The church is about spiritual work. It is hard to keep the two separate when functioning every day. Church business should be separated. God give man an order to love his wife as he loved the church. This is why it is hard to separate your love for the church and your spouse.

1 Kings 2:3 And keep the charge of the LORD thy God, to walk in his ways, to keep his statutes, and his commandments, and his judgments, and his testimonies, as it is written in the law of Moses, that thou mayest prosper in all that thou doest, and whithersoever thou turnest thyself: